Date: 16 July 2024
Preacher: Apostle General Jannie Ngwale & Reverand Mama Faith Ngwale
Editor: Digital Team
Principal Scripture Reading: Hebrews 13:4, Proverbs 21:9
A Milestone Celebration
This week's Sunday service was a profound blessing as we celebrated the remarkable milestone of 37 years of marriage between Apostle General Jannie Ngwale and Reverend Mama Faith Ngwale. This celebration was not just about honouring their enduring union, but also about receiving deep insights into the institution of marriage, directly from the couple.
Marriage as a Divine Institution
Apostle General Jannie Ngwale began by emphasizing that marriage is a divine institution established by God and must be honoured by all. Quoting Hebrews 13:4, he highlighted that marriage should be held in high esteem, not just by those who are married, but by everyone in society. This scripture underscores the sanctity and importance of marriage in God's eyes.
The Secrets to a Lasting Marriage
The Apostle shared that the secret to their lasting marriage lies in two fundamental principles: submission and reverence. These principles are the pillars that have upheld their union for over three decades.
"Submission," he explained, "goes beyond humility—it involves continually seeking ways to meet the needs of one's partner." This ongoing process requires deep understanding and respect for each other's backgrounds and characters. Couples can build a strong and enduring relationship by focusing on these aspects.
The Perspective of Reverence
Reverend Mama Faith Ngwale added her perspective, reinforcing the importance of respecting and honouring each other in marriage as an act of reverence for Christ. She emphasized that in any issue that arises, couples should handle each other according to the laws of this divine institution, always considering how Christ would respond in similar circumstances.
The Challenge of Nagging
In her candid and heartfelt address, Mama Faith spoke about the challenges of communication within marriage, particularly the impact of nagging. She referenced Proverbs 21:9, which says, "Better to live on a corner of the roof than share a house with a quarrelsome wife." She explained that constant nagging can drive a wedge between partners, making it difficult for men to feel at peace in their own homes. Instead, she urged wives to practice patience and understanding, creating an environment where open and loving communication can thrive.
Marriage as a Covenant
Their message was clear: marriage is not just a contract, but a covenant that involves God. This covenant requires commitment, continuous learning, and a deep respect for the sacredness of the relationship. By treating marriage as a covenant, couples can approach their relationship with the seriousness and dedication it deserves.
Timeless Wisdom for Modern Marriages
The insights shared by Apostle General Jannie Ngwale and Reverend Mama Faith Ngwale offer valuable guidance for anyone seeking to strengthen their marriage or prepare for this divine commitment. Their words serve as a reminder that marriage when approached with the right principles and reverence, can be a source of immense joy and fulfillment.
Conclusion
Let us all honour the institution of marriage as God intended and learn from the inspiring example set by our spiritual leaders. Their 37-year journey together is a testament to the power of submission, reverence, and commitment in building a lasting and loving marriage.
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